He then lies high up on your body (CAT - Coital Alignment Technique - disciples will be familiar with this one) and penetrates. You lie on your back and keep your pelvis low (don’t raise your hips). This is a such a no brainer, it actually comes without instruction in the original Kama Sutra text. Sound familiar? Well that’ll be because it’s what you do normally. He gives a gentle stroke forwards, which may be varied in depth and speed. He gives an involuntary shudder inside you, such as he does on orgasm. This is harder than it sounds because it means him using his pelvic floor muscles to move his penis rather than using his hips. He quivers inside you, usually just before orgasm. Tracey Cox, pictured, also explains why keeping your pelvises together can increase pleasure for you and your partner It’s not wild conjecture to imagine the same applies elsewhere. Not as barking as it sounds given recent evidence shows one side of the clitoris is nearly always more sensitive on most women. He puts continuous pressure on one side of the vagina. Gingerly test this one out if you’re not overly keen on deep penetration. If you’ve got a sensitive cervix that likes to know what’s coming (ahem) and he’s rather well endowed, unexpected, deep penetration means pain rather than pleasure.
Some women (like me) wince rather than melt at the thought of this one. He pulls out completely and then penetrates again with a fast, hard stroke. Try this for a totally different sensation and remember, the Kama Sutra isn’t orgasm focused so has different aims – it’s as much about connection and sensation as it is climaxes. This is the opposite to modern thinking which has brainwashed both of you to always aim for the front vaginal wall (the bit under the belly) because that’s where the G -spot is. At the last minute, he penetrates and, still holding his penis, ‘churns’ it in circles. Yes, it is totally ‘doable’ hands-free, but you’ll get a lot more pressure inside by him hanging on.Īnother variation of churning: he holds his penis and you lie back while he rubs the soft head of it over your clitoris until you’re close to orgasm. He grasps his penis in his hand, at the base, then moves it in circles inside you. Like, if he’s super-excited, the last thing on his mind is holding still…unless of course, you’re trying to decrease the level of excitement and delay ejaculation.Ĭlever old Vatsyayana (the man rumoured to have penned the Kama Sutra) - this is exactly when he suggests you use it! The original Kama Sutra text says he should press his penis ‘excitedly’ into your womb and hold it there.Īt first, this seems like a contradiction in terms.
If it does slip out – which is will from time to time – don’t worry, just use your hands to put it back in.
If you’re on top facing his feet, lean back towards his chest, not forward towards his feet if you’re on top facing his head, lean back slightly or lean forward to create a 90 degree angle, then go all the way up and all the way down slowly.Īgain, aim to grind your pelvis in a circular motion rather than lift up and down rocking against each other also works well. If his penis is curved, grind or thrust against the curve not with it. Let him know you’re going to be the one in control, so you’re not both thrusting at different times or in different ways and, if you’re really worried, hang onto the base of it with your hand. The trick is to go easy on the lube, keep thrusting slow, don’t lift too high so he stays deep inside you and keep your pelvises close. It’s nothing to do with penis size, it just happens in certain positions and angles and depends on what thrusting style you’re using. Here’s the truth: it probably will because it’s normal! Lots of women hate being on top and the one in charge of thrusting because they worry about him slipping out.
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